Assalamualaikum.
Semalam adalah sejarah, hari ini satu reality, esok belum pasti. Adakah hari kita pada hari ini lebih baik dari hari semalam? Adakah kita akan pastikan hari esok lebih baik dari hari ini? Sejauh manakah improvement kita terhadap pencapaian kita?
Kita sebagai manusia biasa, pastinya ada pasang surut dalam setiap perkara yang kita lakukan. Andai cinta kita ketika waktu mula-mula bercinta dulu, mekar dan harum bak mawar merah yang segar berseri-seri, mungkin hari ni layu dibiarkan kering tanpa disirami dan tiada dibajai. Tapi mungkin esok kita tersedar dari lamunan, kemudian bajai semula cinta tersebut. Maka berlakulah alunan gelombang pasang surut dalam alam percintaan tersebut.
Mampukan kita pastikan cinta suci kita sentiasa aman damai dan bahagia sentiasa? Dapatkan kita hindarkan persengketaan dalam bercinta? Bagaimana kalau kita lakukan sedikit kaji selidik terhadap diri sendiri? Agar cinta kita mekar mewangi selamanya.
1. Adakah kita sering cemburu buta? Atau adakah kita langsung tidak pedulikan apa yang pasangan kita lakukan?
2. Adakah kita sentiasa sibuk nak tahu apa yang terdapat dalam sms pasangan kita? Adakah kita memantau panggilan telefon yang dilakukan pasangan kita?
3. Bilakah kali terakhir anda bergaduh? Apakah punca pergaduhan tersebut?
4. Sejauh manakah ego kita dalam hubungan kita?
5. Siapakah yang sering beralah?
6. Adakah anda setia pada si dia?
Dan banyak lagi sebenarnya yang boleh kita lihat balik dalam diri kita untuk perbaiki sesuatu hubungan.
Dalam satu kursus yang baru saya hadiri minggu lepas, penceramah tu cakap, dia ada tips untuk elakkan bergaduh dengan isteri dia. Tips tersebut: -
“Semua keputusan yang besar, akan dilakukan oleh saya. Dan keputusan kecil-kecil, akan dilakukan oleh isteri saya. Sampai sekarang, belum ada satu pon keputusan besar yang saya buat. Semuanya keputusan kecil-kecil.”
Hasilnya, selepas bebelas tahun berkahwin, mereka jarang bergaduh. 
Assalamualaikum.
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Ni link sementara untuk forum yg disebutkan tu ye : http://caricinta.net/phpbb
Boleh lah pegi tengok n godek2 dulu ye apa yang patut.
Saya bercadang nak launch pada 18/7/2009 nanti. Ha….apsal tarikh ni?
In this Aug. 29, 1993 file photo, pop singer Michael Jackson performs during his ‘Dangerous’ concert …
By LYNN ELBER, Associated Press Writer Lynn Elber, Associated Press Writer – 30 mins ago
LOS ANGELES – Michael Jackson, the sensationally gifted child star who rose to become the "King of Pop" and the biggest celebrity in the world only to fall from his throne in a freakish series of scandals, died Thursday. He was 50. Jackson died at UCLA Medical Center in Los Angeles. Ed Winter, the assistant chief coroner for Los Angeles County, confirmed his office had been notified of the death and would handle the investigation.
The circumstances of Jackson’s death were not immediately clear. Jackson was not breathing when Los Angeles Fire Department paramedics responded to a call at his Los Angeles home about 12:30 p.m., Capt. Steve Ruda told the Los Angeles Times. The paramedics performed CPR and took him to the hospital, Ruda told the newspaper.
Jackson’s death brought a tragic end to a long, bizarre, sometimes farcical decline from his peak in the 1980s, when he was popular music’s premier all-around performer, a uniter of black and white music who shattered the race barrier on MTV, dominated the charts and dazzled even more on stage.
His 1982 album "Thriller" — which included the blockbuster hits "Beat It," "Billie Jean" and "Thriller" — is the best-selling album of all time, with an estimated 50 million copies sold worldwide.
The public first knew him in the late 1960s, when as a boy he was the precocious, spinning lead singer of the Jackson 5, the music group he formed with his four older brothers. Among their No. 1 hits were "I Want You Back," "ABC," and "I’ll Be There."
He was perhaps the most exciting performer of his generation, known for his feverish, crotch-grabbing dance moves and his high-pitched voice punctuated with squeals and titters. His single sequined glove, tight, military-style jacket and aviator sunglasses were trademarks second only to his ever-changing, surgically altered appearance.
"For Michael to be taken away from us so suddenly at such a young age, I just don’t have the words," said Quincy Jones, who produced "Thriller." "He was the consummate entertainer and his contributions and legacy will be felt upon the world forever. I’ve lost my little brother today, and part of my soul has gone with him."
Jackson ranked alongside Elvis Presley and the Beatles as the biggest pop sensations of all time. He united two of music’s biggest names when he was briefly married to Presley’s daughter, Lisa Marie, and Jackson’s death immediately evoked that of Presley himself, who died at age 42 in 1977.
As years went by, Jackson became an increasingly freakish figure — a middle-aged man-child weirdly out of touch with grown-up life. His skin became lighter, his nose narrower, and he spoke in a breathy, girlish voice. He surrounded himself with children at his Neverland ranch, often wore a germ mask while traveling and kept a pet chimpanzee named Bubbles as one of his closest companions.
"It seemed to me that his internal essence was at war with the norms of the world. It’s as if he was trying to defy gravity," said Michael Levine, a Hollywood publicist who represented Jackson in the early 1990s. He called Jackson a "disciple of P.T. Barnum" and said the star appeared fragile at the time but was "much more cunning and shrewd about the industry than anyone knew."
Jackson caused a furor in 2002 when he playfully dangled his infant son, Prince Michael II, over a hotel balcony in Berlin while a throng of fans watched from below.
In 2005, he was cleared of charges he molested a 13-year-old cancer survivor at Neverland in 2003. He had been accused of plying the boy with alcohol and groping him, and of engaging in strange and inappropriate behavior with other children.
The case followed years of rumors about Jackson and young boys. In a TV documentary, he had acknowledged sharing his bed with children, a practice he described as sweet and not at all sexual.
Despite the acquittal, the lurid allegations that came out in court took a fearsome toll on his career and image, and he fell into serious financial trouble.
Jackson was preparing for what was to be his greatest comeback: He was scheduled for an unprecedented 50 shows at a London arena, with the first set for July 13. He was in rehearsals in Los Angeles for the concert, an extravaganza that was to capture the classic Jackson magic: showstopping dance moves, elaborate staging and throbbing dance beats.
Singer Dionne Warwick said: "Michael was a friend and undoubtedly one of the world’s greatest entertainers that I fortunately had the pleasure of working with. … We have lost an icon in our industry."
Hundreds of people gathered outside the hospital as word of his death spread. The emergency entrance at the UCLA Medical Center, which is near Jackson’s rented home, was roped off with police tape.
"Ladies and gentlemen, Michael Jackson has just died," a woman boarding a Manhattan bus called out, shortly after the news was announced. Immediately many riders reached for their cell phones.
So many people wanted to verify the early reports of Jackson’s death that the computers running Google’s news section interpreted the fusillade of "Michael Jackson" requests as an automated attack for about half an hour Thursday evening.
In New York’s Times Square, a low groan went up in the crowd when a screen flashed that Jackson had died, and people began relaying the news to friends by cell phone.
"No joke. King of Pop is no more. Wow," Michael Harris, 36, of New York City, read from a text message a friend sent to his telephone. "It’s like when Kennedy was assassinated. I will always remember being in Times Square when Michael Jackson died."
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Associated Press Writers Derrik J. Lang in Los Angeles and Virginia Byrne, Nekesa Mumbi Moody and Jocelyn Noveck in New York contributed to this report.
Petang yang terlalu rasanya begitu sayu, Lis duduk
bersendirian di anjung luar rumah. Terpandang
kanak-kanak sedang bermain-main di luar halaman
rumah, bermain sesame sendiri. Sekejap
terkenangkan saat-saat Lis dan sepupunya
bermain-main semasa kecil dulu. Masa itu terasa
begitu seronok sangat. Keriangan waktu
kekanak-kanakkan memang mengembirakan. Sesekali
membuatkan bibir Lis mengukir senyuman.
Kini Lis telahpun meningkat umur 28 tahun. Lis pun
telahpun mendirikan rumahtangga dan memiliki dua
cahaya mata. Namun hubungan antara Lis dan
suaminya terputus hanya kerana tiada persefahaman.
Lis punyai sepuluh adik beradik. Enam diantaranya
belum berkahwin lagi. Kini, selepas Lis bercerai
dengan suaminya, Lis mengambil keputusan duduk
kembali ke pangkuan keluarga Lis sendiri. Mujurlah
Lis bekerja di salah sebuah syarikat swasta di ibu
kota, dan memegang jawatan sebagai Kerani
Pentadbiran.
"Pinn….pinn…" ermm, berkeliaran budak-budak
berlari bila bunyi hon lori yang dipandu bapa Lis
petang itu pulang. Lis terlihat, diwajah bapa Lis
penuh dengan kepenatan. Tapi bapa Lis tidak
pernahpun mengeluh dengan kepenatan yang
ditangunginya. Bagi bapa Lis, mencari rezeki untuk
Isteri dan anak-anaknya sejak dulu lagi, amatlah
penting selagi hayat masih ada. Pernah suatu hari
bapa Lis tidak pergi kerja. Bapa Lis jatuh sakit.
Bapa Lis adalah seorang yang susah hendak pergi ke
Hospital untuk buat rawatan. Sehinggalah semasa
sakit bapa Lis terlalu sakit, barulah dia pergi
berjumpa doctor. Keputusan doctor tentang sakit
bapa Lis, membuatkan bapa Lis termenung selepas
membuat rawatan.
Assalamualaikum.
Salam kejayaan buat para pembaca CariCinta.NET. Mencari Cinta Sejati. Sudahkah anda temui cinta yang anda cari tu? Apakah sebenarnya yang dimaksudkan dengan cinta? Apa pula bezanya cinta, kasih dan sayang? Setiap orang mempunyai pemahaman berbeza terhadap maksud 3 perkataan tu.
Bagaimanakah caranya untuk mengekalkan cinta, kasih dan sayang terhadap pasangan kita? Ada yang berkata, SENANG jek. Ada yang berkata, SUSAH nya. Memang, ada susah dan ada senangnya untuk mengekalkan kehangatan cinta si teruna dan dara.
Mengikut statistik, bilangan % pasangan yang bercerai meningkat dari tahun ke tahun. Itu baru kes cerai yang direkodkan, lum kes masalah rumah tangga, masalah suami tinggalkan isteri gantung tak bertali. Kalau tambah lagi dengan kes pasangan kapel yg belum kawin tu? Memang banyak. Pantai mana yang tak dilanda badai..
Dalam menangai sesuatu permasalahan, apakah perkara utama yang perlu dilakukan? Sebagai langkah awal, kita perlu kenalpasti punca terjadinya masalah tersebut. Bagaimana nak tahu apa puncanya ye? Pernahkah anda dengar istilah ‘5 WHY’ ? 5 langkah untuk mengenalpasti root cause berlakunya sesuatu masalah.
Mungkin kita boleh tanya seperti ini bila terjadinya konflik dalam hubungan kita:-
W1 : Kenapa bergaduh?
A - Terdapat perkara yang tak puas hati.
W2 : Kenapa tak berpuas hati?
A – Pasangan tidak mengambil berat.
W3 : Kenapa pasangan tidak mengambil berat?
A – Dia sibuk dengan perkerjaannya.
W4 : Kenapa dia sibuk bekerja?
A – Untuk mencari wang perbelanjaan.
W5 : Kenapa dia perlu mencari wang?
A – Untuk perbelanjaan keluarga dan menjamin kebahagian bersama.
NAH!!! Ini lah yang dikatakan THE POWER OF ASKING. ASK ASK ASK!!! Dapat penyelesaian nya kan? Jadi, tak perlu lah bergaduh dan berkecil hati. Tentu ada sebab dan matlamat sesuatu perkara itu. Lepas ni, kalau agak2 nak bergaduh, cubalah cari punca sebenarnya ye.
Semoga bermanafaat.
Selamat Mencari Cinta Sejati. Selamat menyemai benih Cinta Sejati. Selamat menikmati buah ranum dari Cinta Sejati.
ps : sapa artis merah ni? boleh buat cerita ghairah ni..hehe
Tak hilang bisa nya ular yang menyusur akar.
Assalamualaikum.
Apa kabar hari ni para pembaca CariCinta.NET? Dah makan ke belum? Kalau belum makan tu, makanlah ye bila lapar. Ada kawan saya kasi TIPS untuk elakkan perut boroi : Makan sebelum maghrib. Betul kan?
Susah hati tengok perut yg semakin membesar? Kita tenangkan minda dulu ye dengan lawak santai hari ni.
ENJOY!!!
Seorang bapa pergi dengan anaknya untuk berjalan-jalan menghirup udara segar, belum berapa jauh berjalan, si bapa baru sedar bahawa selipar yang dipakainya berlainan warna, yang kanan merah dan yang kiri berwarna biru.
Kerana malas untuk kembali ke rumah, ia menyuruh anaknya untuk pulang mengambilkan selipar yang betul, dan sementara itu dia menunggu dibawah pohon yang rendang.
Setelah berapa lama, si anak kembali dengan tangan kosong.
"Kenapa kamu tidak bawa seliparnya …..?!!", kata bapa dengan susah hati.
"Sia-sia je pak.., selipar yang dirumah juga berlainan warna…"
Ramli baru pulang dari pejabatnya ketika isterinya Shima meminta maaf kepadanya..
Shima : Abang.. maaf ya, saya baru saja selesai sterika baju abang tetapi kerana terlalu panas.. lengannya hangus…
Ramli : Tak apalah… Shima masih ingatkan dalam almari, abang masih ada baju yang sama coraknya. Abang belum pernah memakainya kerana itu pemberian dari teman baik abang dari Australia dan abang sangat menyukainya.
Shima : Saya ingat bang.. nasib baik abang masih menyimpannya dan baju itulah yang saya gunting untuk menampal lengan baju yang hangus itu.
Bambang yang tidak bisa berbahasa Inggris beremigrasi ke New York. Ia mendapat pekerjaan, dan teman-temannya mengajarinya untuk mengucapkan "Apple Cake and Coffe( kue apel dan kopi)" dalam bahasa Inggris agar ia dapat memesan makanan sendiri.
Keesokan harinya, Bambang masuk ke sebuah rumah makan. "Pesan apa?" tanya pelayan.
"Apple Cake and Coffe" kata Bambang.
Karena hanya itu yang dapat dikatakannya, ia terpaksa memakan kue apel dan kopi setiap hari selama satu bulan. Ketika ia mengeluh pada teman-temannya, mereka mengajarinya untuk mengucapkan "Meat bread".
Dengan berbekal tambahan kata-kata barunya, Bambang masuk ke restoran dan langsung memesan, "Meat bread"
"Chiken or beef?" tanya si pelayan.
"Apple Cake and Coffe" kata Bambang
Assalamualaikum.
Salam ceria buat para pembaca CariCinta.NET. Mencari Cinta Sejati.
Masih ingat lagi posting lepas saya pada tajuk ‘The Power Of Asking’ ? Dah amalkan tak? Masih malu-malu atau takut untuk bertanya? Saya ada baca buku Zig Ziglar, dia sebut pasal kawan Henry Ford yang menjual insuran. Dia tak dapat close case dengan si Henry Ford. Dia pon tanya lah Henry Ford, “why don’t u buy from me?”. Agak-agak, apa ye yang si Henry Ford tu jawab? Jawapan dia ni dah jadi panduan kepada para peniaga/penjual lain.
Henry ford jawab : “U don’t ask for it”.
Tengok. Kalau kita asyik terangkan jek, asyik bercerita, belum tentu orang tu beli dari kita. Kita perlu tanya dia. Suruh dia beli dari kita. Sama lah jugak dengan percintaan ye. Kalau kita just berkawan je dengan si dia, tak tanya dia nak kapel ke tak, tak propose, macam mana si dia nak tahu hati dan perasaan kita? Kita perlu tanya. ASK FOR IT. DECLARE. Jangan tunggu sampai terlepas.
Sebab tu la kita seringkali jumpa kes yang si dia terlepas dari ganggaman. “Saya sukakan awak. Tapi awak lambat sangat. Saya tertunggu-tunggu lamaran dari awak. Saya dah tak sanggup menunggu. Saya pon terima sajalah lamaran dari orang lain”.Pernah jumpa kan kes macam ni?
So, what are u waiting for? Takut kena rejek? Just reject the rejection.
SELAMAT MENCUBA!!!
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The future that could not be sustained financially..
Mr Kitahara is a famous Japanese TV satire movie star cum director.. He has recently won another international film award. A few years ago his mother passed away. He went home to attend her funeral. He never quite liked his mother, because she kept asking him for money. Should he missed a payment, his mother would call him up and scolded him. On top of that, the more famous he became the more money his mother demanded from him.
When he arrived at the funeral, he still cried very miserably. He felt that he did not fulfill his duties as a son to take care of his mother during her living years. At the end of the service, as he was about to leave, his b rother handed him a small parcel saying,"Mother asked me to pass this to you."
Carefully he opened the parcel. He found within, a savings passbook and a letter. The savings account was under his name with a balance of tens of million Yen. In the letter his mother wrote,
‘Dear son, among all my children, you are the one whom got me most worried. You were never an academic, a true spendthrift and over generous to your friends. When I knew that you were going to work in Tokyo, I was worried that one day you would become a bankrupt. That is why I insist on you sending me money every month. This is to give you a drive to earn more money, at the same time help you to save. Here is all your money, I did not have to spend a cent, for your brother has taken care of me very well. Now take the money and spend wisely."
After reading the letter he broke down with tears and sorrow…
The richest man in TaiWan, late Mr.Wang Yoong Ching once said: The dollar that you earned does not belong to you. The dollar you saved is genuinely yours.
With the worldwide economy down turn, growth rate and interest rates are decreasing while inflation is on the hike. Do not underestimate the little expanses that we have, like a cup of coffee, a packet of cigarettes or a nice new shirt. If we can save it, it might change our life. If you have friends who find it hard to save, please share with them the little story of Mr Kitahara.
The cause of a future that can not be sustained financially is not due to income that is too low, it is expanses that is overly high.
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